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Wouldn't it be great if we all have someone who pushes us into achieving our full potential? I can't count how many friends I've heard they need a mentor. Wouldn't it be great if we all have someone who pushes us into achieving our full potential? I can't count how many friends I've heard they need a mentor.
But lately I feel like this concept has been blown out... partly by those who make a living out of it, and most of us are left out looking for person/s who will finally help us achieve our goals.<!--more--> But lately I feel like this concept has been blown out... partly by those who make a living out of it, and now most of us are left looking for person/s who will finally help us achieve our goals.<!--more-->
Many are now left paralyzed. Many are now left paralyzed.
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Must we let this put our own growth to a halt? Must we let this put our own growth to a halt?
The truth is, when we think about it, the Mentor concept sounds good because it seems to release us from responsibility. The truth is, when we think about it, the mentor concept sounds good because it seems to release us from responsibility.
But those who do have mentors and have a good working relationship with them, will have found this out: they are still the sole responsible person for their growth. But those who do have mentors and have a good working relationship with them, will have found this out: they are still the sole responsible person for their growth.
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First, we own the responsibility. We are accountable to ourselves. No other person is to blame. First, we own the responsibility. We are accountable to ourselves. No other person is to blame.
Then, we can find others. May not as crucial as the first, but we will benefit in finding other people who also owns the responsibility for their growth. Then, we can find others. May not be as crucial as the first, but we will benefit in finding other people who also owns their responsibility for their growth.
There's a quote attributed to one Jim Rohn I keep remembering: There's a quote attributed to one Jim Rohn I keep remembering:
> You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” > You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”
If so, then inevitably your pursuit of growth, taking responsibility, will benefit those around you. And connecting to like-minded others will further nurture your growth. If so then two things happen: first, inevitably your pursuit of growth and taking responsibility will benefit those around you.
Then connecting to like-minded others will further nurture your growth.
With this, we begin to have a cycle of Accountability... and in a way we become a mentor to ourselves and to others. With this, we begin to have a cycle of Accountability... and in a way we become a mentor to ourselves and to others.